by Cynthia Mascarenhas | Jan 10, 2023 | Blog, Narcisstic Abuse
The human mind is a thing of beauty and fascination. When the Bible says, “You are fearfully and wonderfully made,” the best response you can get from me is, “No kidding!” Many have been baffled at how and why a narcissist so consistently and persistently engages...
by Cynthia Mascarenhas | Dec 27, 2022 | Blog, Despair, Grief, Narcisstic Abuse, Trauma
Rudyard Kipling in his book Bridge Building says, “Never look backwards or you’ll fall down the stairs.” This statement, in the context of his book, inspires serious philosophical and existential questions related to the duality between science and the spiritual, but...
by Cynthia Mascarenhas | Dec 2, 2022 | Blog, Narcisstic Abuse
When it comes to decisions and arguments, the Narcissistic Abuser (NA) decides what’s best for you and himself in EVERY situation. Your personal preferences are unacceptable if they conflict with his, even if that preference operates in autonomy. For...
by Cynthia Mascarenhas | Nov 22, 2022 | Blog, Despair, Grief, Narcisstic Abuse, Trauma
Isn’t thanksgiving supposed to flow out of a heart that is grateful, joyous, blessed beyond measure, and in awe of God’s goodness? What then shall we do with the pain of enduring seasons of grief, trauma, and despair? Surely, the darkness of these events which cloud...
by Cynthia Mascarenhas | Oct 25, 2022 | Blog, Narcisstic Abuse
Narcissistic relationships are antagonistic. Here are a few of the many traits commonly displayed by the narssistic abuser. Predatory Behavior Narcissists will stalk their prey with the intent to totally take over every aspect of their existence. They need to...