GRIEF TALK: Music as Medication for the Mind

GRIEF TALK: Music as Medication for the Mind

Grief is a very strong emotion which alters the chemical balance in your body; sudden loss (an unplanned, prolonged separation) triggers a cascade of changes which lead to depression. Research has shown that a brain chemical known as “corticotropin releasing factor”,...
Narcissistic Spiritual Abuse

Narcissistic Spiritual Abuse

Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.” – 1 Corinthians 15:33 This is the simplest summation of life with a corrupt and perverted narcissistic abuser. If a narcissistic abuser claims to be a Christian, and many of them have all the outward...
Absent Rainbows

Absent Rainbows

I recently came across an old note that I wrote when battling a season of despair. In an effort to lift my spirit, I went out for a quick bike ride before dark and saw the most beautiful rainbow. What is it about rainbows that intrigues children and adults alike?...
LIVING WITH NARCISSISTIC ABUSE

LIVING WITH NARCISSISTIC ABUSE

Game of Deception Narcissism is a whole lot more than merely being self-centered and vain; it is a game. Contrary to popular belief, the narcissist does not believe he is “all that”; instead, he works hard at looking good to others because he is afraid that when the...
HOW TO HELP SOMEONE PROCESS TRAUMA

HOW TO HELP SOMEONE PROCESS TRAUMA

Trauma most often happens in an interpersonal context – a person perpetrating injury upon another person. Even in situations where the trauma has been caused by a natural disaster or medical situation, it ultimately materializes in a social context. You have to...